Only love truly heals because only love lies deepest within us.
The basic underlying and uniting force of the universe is a psychic energy
field of love and soul consciousness (Unified Field ) which
lies not only beyond time and space but also beneath our deepest fears ~ and
whose principle property is the urge to unite: Allen L Roland
The only right love is that between couples whose passion leads them both, one through the other, to a higher possession of their being: Teilhard de Chardin
The only right love is that between couples whose passion leads them both, one through the other, to a higher possession of their being: Teilhard de Chardin
For
almost 40 years I have been demonstrating that there is no true healing without
love and that the very act of surrendering to love is the ultimate key to inner
transformation.
You
don't need to see a therapist to understand this phenomenon, you don't need to
attend a workshop to see this magic in action ~ all you need to do is see and
understand your life as a quest, versus a struggle, to realize that not only
are we all loved but that we are all part of a loving plan in action and
gratefulness is the key to this magic kingdom ~ God only reveals itself to a
grateful heart.
In
my work as a heart centered transformation counselor, I rapidly point out
the people who have loved you in your life (grandparents, parents, siblings
and others) on a life chart and ask you a simple question ~ have you
thanked them?
In
my experience, most people have only thanked about 10 to 20% of the people who
have truly touched and loved them in their lives ~ usually because of issues of
unworthiness as well as shame based guilt.
Their
homework is to start thanking them and telling them why they were a gift in
their lives. For active duty veterans, this can include their buddies and
comrades, for veterans form life time loving bonds with the people they have
faced life threatening situations with.
Once
they start thanking people, their hearts begin to open and they start seeing
through different eyes ~ eyes unclouded with unworthiness, shame and guilt.
As
a transformation counselor, my job as their coach, is to help them go through
their fears by using gratefulness as their heart centered tool of choice. Once
they have thanked these people, they share their life chart with those people
closest to them in the same spirit of gratefulness and now joy.
It
would appear that the pain of not feeling loved for oneself and being seemingly
separated from our original state of soul consciousness and the Unified Field
is of such deep psychic proportions that, early in childhood, processes are
triggered in the hypothalamus which result in a left brain imbalance and
dominance as well as the denial, mistrust and forgetting of our connection to
the Unified Field and the love and joy and a state of soul consciousness
deepest within us. It is from this dark tunnel of pain, aloneness, despair and
apparent death that the ego and ego consciousness is born - for survival and
protection purposes only.
As
such, death or the idea of death, is an illusion measured by the limits of our
consciousness. Think of the ego as a protective cocoon that is eventually
meant to be shed.
The Unified Field can be visualized as a grid
of great luminosity joining all living beings within its energy field of love.
The words of Longfellow would seem appropriate in describing this
all-encompassing field or grid: "The thread of all sustaining beauty
that runs through all and doth all unite."
A UNIVERSE OF HEARTSTRINGS
This
is why most people are not afraid of their pain, most people are living in pain
~ what most people are afraid of is their deeper joy because they feel it
will eventually be taken away ~ as it seemingly was as a child or in
relationship.
Once
my clients sense that beneath their deepest
pain and fear is joy, intention and purpose ~ their ego is no longer needed for
protection and begins to slowly unravel as celebration and service become more
important for survival.
The
8 steps of ego death are Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, Acceptance and
Connection, Surrender, Celebration and Service.
Quite
simply, I meet and touch them, as their coach, at the celebration and service
stage and rapidly help them accept and connect their pain (through the life
chart) and eventually lead them to surrender, celebration and service ~ always
using gratefulness as well as forgiveness, as my primary tools.
It
happens very rapidly because they sense the truth that I know and they are, in
essence, healing themselves
I
have personally proved that a Unified Field of love, joy and soul
consciousness exists beneath our deepest pain and fears and I have guided
hundreds including combat veterans, who were
taught to kill, to this same place of gratitude, self-forgiveness, joy and love
deepest within themselves. See http://www.veteranstoday.com/2013/02/12/miracle-of-heart-centered-counseling-is-self-healing/
Only
love truly heals because only Love connects us to what is deepest within
ourselves and we, in essence, begin the
process of healing ourselves.
If there were no real propensity to unite, even at a prodigiously rudimentary level, indeed, in the molecule itself, it would be impossible for love to appear higher up in the human form: Teilhard de Chardin
If there were no real propensity to unite, even at a prodigiously rudimentary level, indeed, in the molecule itself, it would be impossible for love to appear higher up in the human form: Teilhard de Chardin
Allen
L Roland
Freelance
Alternative Press Online columnist and
transformational counselor Allen L Roland is available for comments,
interviews, speaking engagements and private
Skype consultations allen@allenroland.com
Allen
L Roland is also a lecturer who also shares a daily
political and social commentary on his web log and
website allenroland.com He also
guest hosts a monthly national radio show TRUTHTALK on www.conscioustalk.net
