In my proven heart centered work with combat veterans with PTSD
it is obvious that the healing power of unconditional love can facilitate
transformative change. Nowhere is that more evident than with Combat Veterans
with their special need dogs ~ for only unconditional love can penetrate the
dark shadow world of PTSD: Allen L Roland, Ph.D
During the past four years, I have been able to successfully demonstrate in my 11 Healing The Wounded Heart (Band of Brothers) workshops in the San Francisco Bay area with combat veterans with PTSD ~ that reclaiming veterans' damaged souls through love, acceptance and gratefulness can lead not only to self-healing but also full recovery. These 8 once a week workshops enjoyed an average success rate of approximately 60 % in all symptoms of PTSD ~ especially in the ability to love and accept love as well as achieving a deeper sense of inner joy, peace and well-being. See the Miracle of Heart Centered Counseling is Self-Healing ~ http://www.veteranstoday.com/2013/02/12/miracle-of-heart-centered-counseling-is-self-healing/
Vietnam combat veteran Tim Barton relaxing with his beloved dog Shasta in Antioch, California
As
Stephen Kendrick wrote ~ Love is not determined by the one being loved,
but rather by the one choosing to love. In other words, it is conscious
non-possessive love versus emotional need centered love and when we consciously
love we enter the sacred space of unconditional love and a Unified Field of love and soul
consciousness ~ that is also deepest within
each one of us. All of us have the capacity to love that deeply ~ but few of
us get beyond the ego's fear based need to control or possess and are able to
access and breath the rarefied air of true
unconditional love.
In
that regard, our pets (dogs, cats and even horses) are often reservoirs of that
love for they quite often have the capacity
to unconditionally love us especially when we feel alone and unloved.
As
a child, my dogs were very special to me in that regard but especially in
college where my dog INKY became our
fraternity house pet. But my horse SCOUT was the best example of the healing
power of unconditional love and the one
choosing to love.
I
was going through a painful separation from my second wife and living in a
rented room on a horse ranch in Sonoma, California. My horse SCOUT became my
connection to source and the healing power of love ~ for every day I cleaned
his hoofs, rode him at full gallop in the vineyards and then washed and groomed
him and fed him. It was a conscious choice to love and nurture him every day
and in the process I healed myself through that love and learned how to
unconditionally love.
Letting go of SCOUT, as such, was an act of conscious unconditional love and there was no sense of loss but instead celebration and completion ~ for his future happiness was more important to me than my selfishly holding on to him. We had finished our healing time together and it was time to let go. Great love can both take hold and let go and the same thing can happen in relationship ~ for those who we love deeply become part of us forever and still live in our hearts.
Watch
these two Veterans with PTSD, especially David Sharpe and his dog Cheyenne,
react with their dogs and how their pet's unconditional love sets the stage for
their own eventual self-healing and ability to love and accept love. 5 Minute
Video ~
https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=vuTyEcBi_n4Freelance Alternative Press Online columnist and heart centered spiritual counselor Allen L Roland is available for comments, interviews, speaking engagements and private Skype consultations at allen@allenroland.com
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