Six Pacific Islanders and combat veterans with PTSD as well as
victims of military racism and prejudice face their deepest fears (the fears of
their hearts) in Healing The Wounded Heart (Band of Brothers) Workshop # 18.
Through the power of love, gratefulness and forgiveness they all discover not
only their true authentic self but awaken their closed and wounded hearts in
the process: Allen L Roland, PhD
In
my role as a volunteer heart centered workshop consultant,
advisor and coach/mentor, I have recently
assisted in the heart felt inner healing of six more combat veterans with PTSD
at our local Vets Center. All of them found the courage to go within and
beneath their pain and anguish ~ and they
found, in the process ~ their original innocence, joy and delight as well as a
need to be in service from that very same place of love and gratitude ~ and all within seven weeks.
Make
no mistake about it, the keys to the magic kingdom of
the soul is gratefulness and forgiveness ~ and eventually gratefulness
and forgiveness ends with our self.
Initially,
each one of these participants with the assistance of their adjustment
counselor complete a Life chart ~ a chart which clearly shows their whole
life, relationships and war experience as a Quest or journey to where they are
now.
From
our very first session, they begin the process of thanking the people who have
been there in their lives and as they do ~ like flowers, their buried or
numbed out hearts begin to open allowing
them to see through different eyes.
They
all have access to these self-healing steps in my updated Kindle Book RADICAL
THERAPY, SURRENDER TO LOVE AND HEAL YOURSELF IN SEVEN SESSIONS (not seven
years). Here is the Kindle link http://www.amazon.com/Radical-Therapy-Surrender-Yourself-Sessions-ebook/dp/B00JGE5VQE
And here's a link to the YouTube sessions of the self-healing process I teach ~ Watch,
in the first 20 minutes, how Marina conquers her deepest fear and demonstrates
that beneath her pain and fear is boundless
joy, See video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r12MoNnwPKg&feature=youtu.be
In the third tenet of my PhD dissertation, The Unified Field, I describe
the process by which psychic pain can over-ride joy and how most people are
afraid of or mistrust their deepest joy ~ It would appear that the pain
of not feeling loved for oneself and being seemingly separated from our
original state of soul consciousness and the Unified Field is of such deep
psychic proportions that, early in childhood, processes are triggered in the
hypothalamus which result in a left brain imbalance and dominance as well as
the denial, mistrust and forgetting of our connection to the Unified Field and
the love and joy and a state of soul consciousness deepest within us. It is from this dark tunnel of pain,
aloneness, despair and apparent death that the ego and ego consciousness is
born - for survival and protection purposes only.
But
to these proud Pacific Islanders, the shame of racism and prejudice was added
to their military experience and all had unresolved anger and trust issues.
The
group has bonded through their sharing and homework ~ here is a summary of
their response to three questions;
2.
I wanted to go through my fears and stop numbing out
with alcohol
3.
I found myself and can finally accept love
MC ~ 1. I wanted to get beyond my guilt
2.
I want to just be myself
3. I know I now have a
choice
RT ~ 1. I want to get beyond the
chip on my shoulder
2.
I want to get beyond my anger
3.
I know I have another choice besides anger
SA
~ 1. I am consumed with survivor
guilt
2.
I want get beyond my guilt and reunite with my family.
3. I have forgiven myself and reunited with my
family.
ML ~ 1. I Like myself but I want
to be able to share all my joy
2.
I want to really find my deepest joy
3.
I have found my joy and am reconnected to the childhood friend I originally shared
it with.
2.
I want to tap into my deepest delight
3.
I found that delight within myself and am ready to fully share it.
They
all graduated with honors for finding the
courage to face their fears as well as find another choice
of behavior versus anger and resentment.
~ Mahatma Gandhi, All Men are Brothers: Autobiographical Reflections
Heart centered spiritual consultant and advisor Allen L Roland can be contacted at allen@allenroland.com Allen is also a lecturer and writer who shares a weekly political and social commentary on his web log and website allenroland.com. He is also featured columnist on Veterans Today and guest hosts a monthly national radio show TRUTHTALK on www.conscioustalk.net
Holding on to hatred and resentment is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die ~ Buddha
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