Here I
am perched on this pale blue dot in
space, Earth. Our Sun, which is 4.7 billion years old, is located 26,000
light-years away from the galactic center on one of the spiral arms of our
galaxy ~ the Milky Way. The Sun makes one complete orbit around the galaxy
about once every 225 million years. In contrast, stars near the galactic center
complete a lap in a few million years or less. Most of
our galaxy is relatively uncrowded ~ the nearest star to our Sun, for example,
is 4.2 light-years away. Roughly 10 million stars are known to orbit within a
light-year of the galaxy’s center ~ but we are all innately joined to
this immense enormity by guess what ~ our ability to love: Allen L
Roland, Ph.D
See
and listen to Carl Sagan as he describes this small pale dot called earth ~
where we play out our brief life dramas and sense and long for our deeper
spiritual roots. 3 minute must see video:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p86BPM1GV8M
2014
has been a year of service for me as a heart centered spiritual consultant and
advisor particularly to young combat veterans of Iraq and Afghanistan who were
taught to kill and in the process forgot their deeper need to love and cherish
life.
It
has been immensely satisfying and I feel totally in sync with my destiny for I
am empowering others by sharing my truth from an egoless place of inner joy,
gratitude and service.
This
view of twilight sky and Martian horizon, taken by NASA's Mars rover
Curiosity, includes Earth as the brightest point of light in the night sky.
Earth is a little left of center in the image, and our moon is just below
Earth. A human observer with normal vision, if standing on Mars, could easily
see Earth and the moon as two distinct, bright "evening stars."
8 STAGES OF EGO DEATH AND SOUL RETRIEVAL
For
almost 40 years I have been demonstrating that there is no true healing without
love and that the very act of surrendering to love is the first step towards
inner transformation.
You
don't need to see a therapist to understand this phenomenon, you don't need to
attend a workshop to see this magic in action ~ all you need to do is see
and understand your life as a quest, versus a struggle, to realize that not
only are we all loved but that we are all part of a loving plan in action and
gratefulness is the key to this magic kingdom ~ God only reveals itself
to a grateful heart.
In
my work as a heart centered transformation consultant and advisor, I
rapidly point out the people who have loved
you in your life (grandparents, parents, siblings and others) on a life
chart and ask you a simple question ~ have you thanked them?
In
my experience, most people have only thanked about 10 to 20% of the people who
have truly touched and loved them in their lives ~ usually because of issues
of unworthiness as well as shame based guilt.
Their
homework is to start thanking them and telling them why they were a gift in
their lives. For active duty veterans, this can include their buddies and
comrades, for veterans form life-time loving bonds with the people they have
faced life threatening situations with.
Once
they start thanking people, their hearts begin to open and they start seeing
through different eyes ~ eyes unclouded with unworthiness, shame and guilt.
As
a transformation consultant, my job as their coach and mentor, is to help them
go through their fears by using gratefulness as their heart centered tool of
choice. Once they have thanked these people, they share their life chart with
those people closest to them in the same spirit of gratefulness and now joy.
It
would appear that the pain of not feeling loved for oneself and being seemingly
separated from our original state of soul consciousness and the Unified Field
is of such deep psychic proportions that, early in childhood, processes are
triggered in the hypothalamus which result in a left brain imbalance and
dominance as well as the denial, mistrust and forgetting of our connection to
the Unified Field and the love and joy and a state of soul consciousness
deepest within us. It is from this dark tunnel of pain, aloneness, despair
and apparent death that the ego and ego consciousness is born - for survival
and protection purposes only.
As
such, death or the idea of death, is an illusion measured by the limits of our
consciousness. Think of the ego as a protective cocoon that is eventually
meant to be shed.
The Unified Field can be visualized as a grid
of great luminosity joining all living beings within its energy field of love.
The words of Longfellow would seem appropriate in describing this
all-encompassing field or grid: "The thread of all sustaining beauty
that runs through all and doth all unite."
A UNIVERSE OF HEARTSTRINGS
This
is why most people are not afraid of their pain, most people are living in pain
~ what most people are afraid of is their deeper joy because they feel it
will eventually be taken away or lost ~ as
it seemingly was as a child or in relationship.
Anger
(
I can't stay in control and manipulate things any more ~ it's not working and
making me mad )
Bargaining
(
I'll hang onto something so I won't get out of control and have to deal with
the unknown and all those scary feelings deep inside me )
Depression
(
Why am I feeling so sad, and it seems to go so deep. If only I could get out of
this pit of despair )
Acceptance
and Connection (
I'm feeling sad and there is nothing I can do about it but it feels so familiar
like I've been here before as a young child or in relationship and it won't go
away )
Surrender
(
I'm letting go to the pain by embracing the deep hurt and not being a victim )
Celebration
( Why am I laughing and
crying at the same time ~ what is this deep joy and excitement beneath the
sadness and it doesn't have anything to do with someone else. It's me!
I'm
finally trusting my deepest feelings and a growing sense that everything is
going to be all right.
and
Service ( There's something I'm supposed to be doing on this planet
and it has nothing to do with making money but instead making a difference )
It
happens very rapidly because they sense the truth that I know and they are, in
essence, healing themselves
I
have personally demonstrated that a Unified Field of love, joy and soul
consciousness exists beneath our deepest pain and fears and I have guided
hundreds including combat veterans, who were
taught to kill, to this same place of gratitude, self-forgiveness, joy and love
deepest within themselves. See article ~ http://www.veteranstoday.com/2013/02/12/miracle-of-heart-centered-counseling-is-self-healing/
It
cannot be stopped because it is tapping into our individual DNA and the real
reason we are here on Planet Earth ~ to bear the universal beams of love and
help the planet evolve.
It's
a spiritual Revolution and it took another step forward in 2014. There are sleeper
cells in every nation, every state, every county and neighborhood ~ it's alive and growing and it cannot be
stopped.
We
are slowly creating a soul based World Order where our minds are driven by our
hearts, social cooperation and altruism (the innate driving forces of
Evolution) and not by the ego's need to dominate and control.
The
universal message is simple ~ Be the change you want to see in the world,
the directions are deepest within you.
For guidance, here's a link to my completely
updated kindle eBook on Amazon:
http://www.amazon.com/Radical-Therapy-Surrender-Yourself-Sessions-ebook/dp/B00JGE5VQE
And here's a link to the YouTube sessions of the self-healing process I teach ~ watch
Marina in session 5 conquer her deepest fear
and demonstrate that beneath our pain is joy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r12MoNnwPKg&feature=youtu.be
Heart
centered spiritual consultant and advisor Allen L Roland can
be contacted at allen@allenroland.com . Allen is also a lecturer and writer who shares a weekly political and social commentary on his web log and website allenroland.com. He is also a featured columnist on Veterans
Today and guest
hosts a monthly national radio show TRUTHTALK on www.conscioustalk.net